Thursday, November 24, 2011

People are Surprised

1) when they realize that the husband is a vegetarian and wife eats chicken

2) when husband after getting married sends off his wife for 2 years to a different state to do an MBA (her long cherished dream)

3) when husband enjoys absolutely nothing without his wife, she is always in his thoughts and plans

4) when husband lets his wife cook whatever she is willing to eat because her eating is his priority and he can make do with anything

5) when husband takes his wife out to see each and every movie sometimes 2 movies in a day

6) when husband tells that we are in budget mode and soon after buys a bag for his wife

7) when husband is happiest to see how thrilled his wife is when she is shopping

8) when husband readily agrees to do household chores when the wife is no mood to do them

etc.etc.etc....


Yes, I am talking about my Dear Husband. Yesterday while I was clicking away to glory on my laptop, he just stood in the corner watching me and smiling and this simplest of his gestures made me realize, how lucky I am :) :)

After marrying him, all the image in my head about a typical Indian husband especially a Rajasthani one, simply got erased. I was proven wrong and now many a people who come to know about are relationship are simply surprised. Many can not believe that ours was an Arranged Marriage...and I feel so happy, proud and content at all the remarks we get and the way people are surprised with the way we live.

I have seen couples bickering about each other to their friends and I feel out of  place when some of the people I know indulge in husband bashing sessions. I simply listen because I have nothing to say and I am so glad for that :) :)

This post is dedicated to my Dear Husband :) :)


P.S: We have been married for past 4.5 years now, but it does not feel that old :) :)
P.S: I am sure you guys have great spouses/boy friends or will have great partners in future, but I am in awe of mine :) :)


30 comments:

  1. Purvi,wish you many years of happiness with your loving and caring hubby!A cute post:)

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  2. Probably, he is best and simplest example of a soulmate. May god keep showering happiness on you both. :)

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  3. This is so sweet, and you are both lucky to have each other, i feel the same about my hubby so I know what you mean!

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  4. aww, ya i knew that I love my bf the minute i realized that I have a good time even when we're doing nothing but sitting at home watching random tv shows :D

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  5. Awww this is so lovely. You were obviously definitely meant to be together!

    xxx

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  6. Purvi- you are very lucky to have a soulmate in your hubby. Not everyone finds the right one. And recalling the yummy Rajasthani food I've had, I wouldn't mind being a vegetarian too!

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  7. What a sweet post. All the best to you! And all the best to your career too! Thanks for your comment :)

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  8. Awww Purvi, this is too sweet, I think your husband is just as lucky to have you as you are him. May you have many more wonderful years together!

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  9. hahaha how sweet...life, love and their multiple facets....g8 post.

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  10. This is such a cute post..with all sincerity..God bless you with all the happiness :)
    Referring to the second point..I remember mentioning to you before that while I was in India my fiance was doing MBA in Dubai..and since now he is back to India..we sometimes really miss the time I was here and he was there..and of course people are surprised to know that :):)
    Thank you for stopping by my blog and for your lovely comment. I am glad you liked my post. Please do visit me again :)

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  11. Very cute what you got going on here! I got your blog from Agam!! hope you'll stop by my blog sometimes and check it out see if anything sparks your eyes to become a follower!

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  12. This is so sweet..wish you happiness always.

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  13. I love this post, I have seen more than one Arranged Marriage that was very successfull. I hope that you will have many serene years together.

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  14. its always feel like a blessing to have a wonderful partner!!

    am so glad for you!!!

    http://sushmita-smile.blogspot.com/

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  15. wow your husband sounds wonderful. you're a lucky girl :)

    natalie
    http://lucyandtherunaways.blogspot.com

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  16. OMG! So sweet! I am so moved.

    I am single hope to get a husband like yours.

    You are so lucky *fingers crossed*

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  17. What a lovely husband you have! Iwouldnt say that you are lucky, because I know that you must be special, for every line you have written about your husband, he could write one about you too, as life is always a two way street...

    You must be very special, as we get what we deserve:)

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  18. This is really sweet! My husband is pretty awesome like that too. Cheers to wonderful husbands!

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  19. Wow, sounds like you´ve found a true gem! he sounds amazing, you lucky girl! I´ve just discovered your blog and I love it! I´m happy to be your new follower :)

    xx Ivana

    Stop by sometimes :)
    Style in the City

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  20. That's so lovely to hear. Remove the Drishti ( evil eye) on your husband :-). First time on your blog and first post. Interesting :-). Have fun.

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  21. Aww what a lovely post!!!

    http://thetinycloset.blogspot.com/

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  22. wow! well must say you're a really lucky woman.. It's hard to find such men who respect their wives and love them so much.. I'm really happy for you... And *touchwood* this post made me smile.. May you guys see many more joyous years together :)

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  23. awww...thts the sweetest post :) Loved reading it..

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  24. Lucky you!! That was such a sweet post...may both of you have a very long happy married life together :)
    Thanks a bunch for dropping by my blog and commenting :)
    Am following you now :D

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  25. sooo sweet!!lucky girl..and this surely gave me strength for my future arranged marriage...

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  26. Ours was arranged too and we completed 5 years last year...people don't believe that arranged marriages can work out so well sometimes...this is a very sweet post!

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