One of the person (
not all people on the friend's list are "Friends") on my friend list on my personal Facebook Profile wrote on his wall that he is en-route to a foreign locale. Freaking guy was showing off and I know this because I know him for a long time and that is what he takes pride in:
SHOWING OFF. He never loses any opportunity to show himself better then others whether monetarily or otherwise.
This guy's status messages are in general always about either his foreign trips or about his location messages e.g XYZ was at PQR Hotel in ABC country or his pictures are always showing off the hotel room he lived in or a famous tourist spot he was at (
How obviously ridiculous is that?????).
Anyways this status message made me ponder on the issue of showing off.
Well!!!! its great to be able to visit so many countries and places, I mean
I would love to mention my trips to any new place, but showing them off just to impress upon others your wealth is not such a great way to live. By the way this guy works in the marketing department of a company so that would explain all the foreign trips
:) :)
I know I am a little judgmental but a lot more opinionated (
and I sort of sick to my opinions :)). And I personally see such actions as a sign of insecurity and a sense of lack of achievement.
I have nothing against showing off, I mean I like to show off my new buys, be it a little pair of earrings or a new phone but to my friend's and family only. I do not do so to impress upon them my superiority. In fact I never talk about such things in front of people who I know are financially not as sound as me.
I know there is a thin line between showing off your happiness and showing off the wealth but from what I understand is that most of the people are intelligent enough to judge the difference.
Anyways I would say that one should show off a real achievement or a great hairstyle or a sexy back ( I love dresses which show off the back :)) or a great recipe or your IQ or EQ or some great talent that one has or whatever but one should not
compare cars or foreign trips or your phones, for you don't know that the person you are trying to show your wealth could buy you 100 times over (
all that I am saying may be a little dramatic and preachy but then I do not care, sometimes I get pissed like this )
Lets face the truth, in reality we will always find people who are not so well off as us, also we will find people who are better off then us.
I believe in Karma: What goes around, comes around.
So Mr.XYZ, you will one day come across somebody who will give you the taste of your own stupidity :P
P.S:
I do believe that if you have it then flaunt it but DO NOT try hard to make somebody else feel bad..Its not right and its not ethical.
and this post has not been written to preach, its just an outlet of what I felt :) :)
I am sure I am not the only one who thinks like this... Am I????????????
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Now thats a Show off I won't mind :) |